If you haven't read about my first (almost) March appointment check that our here. This is what happened next.
I went back to see babydoc a week later, and GOOD NEWS: I do not have Fragile X Syndrome so one crisis averted! Since I don't have that dastardly genetic condition we are free to move forward with an IUI this month and IVF in the future.
The doctor does his normal "down there" business* and then he makes his first mistake of the day. He spoke. Actually, babydoc made an unforgivable comment. We will be moving on for a second opinion.
Babydoc: Have you given more thoughts to donor eggs?
Me: Casey and I talked about it and at this point we don't think it is for us. We want to try IVF at least once and if that's a bust we'll start talking about adoption.**
Babydoc: Really? You would deny your husband his right to be the biological father to your children?
And that comment dear friends of the interweb can never be unspoken. Or (at least at this point) forgiven. Info on our first appt with Babydoc2 (hmmm might need a better name) coming soon.
It's been two and a half weeks since that comment and I'm angrier about it now than I was that day.
* This involves me lying on a table and him playing with a wand and is about as fun as it sounds. In fact this wand is down right uncomfortable. I mean really, I'm not that kind of girl. A gentleman would at least take a girl to dinner first. Okay no dinner. A drink maybe?
** At least for right now donor eggs are off the table. No judgement if we change our minds later.